You love your boyfriend, but you want to live alone. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Many people in committed relationships feel torn between the desire for closeness and the need for personal space. Society often tells us that moving in together is the natural next step, but what if that doesn’t feel right?
There’s a growing movement of couples who are choosing to live apart together (LAT). In LAT relationships, people are committed to each other but maintain separate homes. It sounds unconventional, but it’s becoming increasingly common and accepted.
Why might someone be in a situation where they love my boyfriend but I want to live alone? This article explores the reasons behind this feeling, the benefits of LAT relationships, how to communicate your needs effectively, and how to embark on a journey of self-discovery.