Your phone buzzes. You glance down and BAM! A spicy text. Your heart does a little flutter-kick. You feel a mix of excitement, maybe a little nervousness, and definitely anticipation. It might even be one of those flirty kissing texts. What does this mean? And what do you do now?
A “spicy text” is just a fun way of saying a text message that’s suggestive, flirty, or even a little sexually explicit. It’s a move that can change the whole dynamic of a relationship, depending on what you do next.
So, how do you respond to a spicy text? It all boils down to knowing yourself, understanding your relationship with the sender, and being clear about what you want. This involves effective relationship communication, balancing playfulness, respect, and healthy boundaries.